JACKSONVILLE, Fla. – It’s a love story for the ages: 70 years of marriage!
While some of us can’t even commit to a Netflix series, Jacksonville’s Pat and David Balanky have been navigating life together since going to the movies cost 20 cents.
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The Balankys are sharing the secrets that have kept their love strong. First, they talk about teamwork. Life doesn’t always go according to plan, but when you face challenges together (like Pat’s exhaustive battle with cancer), the Balankys say there’s nothing you can’t handle.
Second, they encourage you to see life’s twists and turns as adventures to tackle side by side, transforming even the toughest moments into memories.
Third, Choose a partner who’s also your best friend. It’s the shared laughs, deep respect, and genuine care that the Balankys say hold everything together.
If you’re still hungry for more relationship insights, Joy sits down with Jennifer Fortune, a local licensed mental health counselor with a history of helping couples thrive.
Fortune shares that strong marriages are built on daily commitments and small actions, not always grand gestures.
She also responds to eye-opening statistics: First marriages last 8-9 years, second marriages 7-10 years, and third marriages 5-8 years. Fortune says perseverance is crucial and explains how to do it.
Fortune discusses common marriage challenges — communication, conflict resolution, and finances — and she stresses the importance of discussing money values early. Jennifer also champions premarital counseling and notes that many rocky marriages are salvageable.
It’s like having a personal relationship coach in your corner!
To watch the full interview with Fortune and Pat and David, visit Discover The Joy: The Purdy Podcast on YouTube.